Comments on: How to Break Up http://www.lifespy.com/2007/how-to-break-up/ analyzing lifestyles Thu, 19 Nov 2009 15:43:37 -0600 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.5 hourly 1 By: RinaO http://www.lifespy.com/2007/how-to-break-up/comment-page-1/#comment-391840 RinaO Fri, 14 Aug 2009 02:21:40 +0000 http://www.lifespy.com/2007/how-to-break-up/#comment-391840 Funny how thanks to internet you can look up things like this. Wish the sad excuse of a man I wasted my heart on... could have read this and learnt how to end a relationship with some class - and cojones. And most importantly respect. Being "normal" (loving, regular boyfriendlike behavior), making love and then saying "i love you" (girls don't ever fall for these words cos they don't get the meaning of the word) the night before.... ....and then suddenly, next day, over the phone, become the hurtful, cold person he sometimes becomes (in the past year esp) and makes sure he hurts you bad by saying you're so unbearable, his friends hate you and oh damn he has to rush it because his stupid "bros" waiting for him at the club. All this - just a couple days before our third anniversary. That's all this relationship is worth to this guy. If I knew I would've walked away a LOOOONG time ago and found someone with a little more class. At least someone who can end a relationship right, as an adult, not a child. See girls - it boils down to this : I loved this man through his cowardly passiveness watching his friends humiliate and belittle me, his hurtful words and put-downs (which uncannily sound like quotes from his friends i've heard before), and public humiliation of pics of him partying with some fat ugly hoes over the Net (which I was tagged in by his buddies to make sure I saw it.) Is this high school? I WISH! We're all working professionals - btw 28 and 31!!!!! I refuse to try to explain his behavior. That one act of utter and total disrepect of ending this relationship over the phone is all I needed to know that I will never go back to him. And trust me - neither will any woman with half an ounce of self-respect. Cos it's not enough to tide you through the crap that is a man too cowardly to see you face to face, and has no regrd for what you had together to do it properly. We started as best friends. Now I wouldn't even stop to help him if he was lying on the ground dying. For real. Guys - I know you don't really approve of it either. Don't ever EVER do it. Cos a woman's undying devotion can be channeled into wrath - and then you are SOOOO screwed. Sorry it was so long but it just happened and one more thing : try your best NOT to take revenge, girls. I know we're good at it. But don't EVER sink to the stupid man's level. You've wasted enough time on bad genes that might've resulted in stupid-ass kids anyway. So move on. But make sure he knows what he's missed out on - and never take him back. There are good men out there. Leave the jerks to the sluts and ho's. Funny how thanks to internet you can look up things like this. Wish the sad excuse of a man I wasted my heart on… could have read this and learnt how to end a relationship with some class – and cojones. And most importantly respect. Being “normal” (loving, regular boyfriendlike behavior), making love and then saying “i love you” (girls don’t ever fall for these words cos they don’t get the meaning of the word) the night before….
….and then suddenly, next day, over the phone, become the hurtful, cold person he sometimes becomes (in the past year esp) and makes sure he hurts you bad by saying you’re so unbearable, his friends hate you and oh damn he has to rush it because his stupid “bros” waiting for him at the club. All this – just a couple days before our third anniversary.
That’s all this relationship is worth to this guy. If I knew I would’ve walked away a LOOOONG time ago and found someone with a little more class. At least someone who can end a relationship right, as an adult, not a child.
See girls – it boils down to this : I loved this man through his cowardly passiveness watching his friends humiliate and belittle me, his hurtful words and put-downs (which uncannily sound like quotes from his friends i’ve heard before), and public humiliation of pics of him partying with some fat ugly hoes over the Net (which I was tagged in by his buddies to make sure I saw it.)
Is this high school?
I WISH! We’re all working professionals – btw 28 and 31!!!!!
I refuse to try to explain his behavior. That one act of utter and total disrepect of ending this relationship over the phone is all I needed to know that I will never go back to him. And trust me – neither will any woman with half an ounce of self-respect. Cos it’s not enough to tide you through the crap that is a man too cowardly to see you face to face, and has no regrd for what you had together to do it properly. We started as best friends. Now I wouldn’t even stop to help him if he was lying on the ground dying. For real.
Guys – I know you don’t really approve of it either. Don’t ever EVER do it. Cos a woman’s undying devotion can be channeled into wrath – and then you are SOOOO screwed.
Sorry it was so long but it just happened and one more thing : try your best NOT to take revenge, girls. I know we’re good at it. But don’t EVER sink to the stupid man’s level. You’ve wasted enough time on bad genes that might’ve resulted in stupid-ass kids anyway. So move on. But make sure he knows what he’s missed out on – and never take him back. There are good men out there. Leave the jerks to the sluts and ho’s.

]]> By: philip http://www.lifespy.com/2007/how-to-break-up/comment-page-1/#comment-366991 philip Fri, 01 May 2009 14:36:58 +0000 http://www.lifespy.com/2007/how-to-break-up/#comment-366991 i m not happy about breaking up but i have to cos she is not my type of girl. i m not happy about breaking up but i have to cos she is not my type of girl.

]]> By: ashley http://www.lifespy.com/2007/how-to-break-up/comment-page-1/#comment-119313 ashley Tue, 05 Feb 2008 08:31:57 +0000 http://www.lifespy.com/2007/how-to-break-up/#comment-119313 Hi thx micheal ur advice helped me alot. But do you mind if i add a few things? Don't beat around the bush Some Women like it when men are to the point and don't give little tidbits about wat they are trying to say. Don't get someone else to do it 4 u Don't make someone else breakup with your boyfriend/girlfriend.Thats just plain rude.Also it will hurt the person more than if you break up with them face to face. The outcome will be very bad. Hi thx micheal ur advice helped me alot.
But do you mind if i add a few things?

Don’t beat around the bush
Some Women like it when men are to the point and don’t give little tidbits about wat they are trying to say.

Don’t get someone else to do it 4 u
Don’t make someone else breakup with your boyfriend/girlfriend.Thats just plain rude.Also it will hurt the person more than if you break up with them face to face. The outcome will be very bad.

]]> By: Dump Your Boyfriend Gently http://www.lifespy.com/2007/how-to-break-up/comment-page-1/#comment-114720 Dump Your Boyfriend Gently Wed, 23 Jan 2008 07:58:59 +0000 http://www.lifespy.com/2007/how-to-break-up/#comment-114720 Can i add afew of my own how to break up? Don't do the disappearing Act Some people simply disappear never giving a reason why they broke up with their partners don't do it. Do consider the timing Be sensitive if he/she has lot someone or is no well don't break up with him/her then wait till he/she is fine enough to receive the news. Don't be too honest Don't tell him or her your are leaving her for her bad breath, bad habits or even that you have found a hotter woman/better man. Bad breath, bad habits, hotter woman Can i add afew of my own how to break up?

Don’t do the disappearing Act
Some people simply disappear never giving a reason why they broke up with their partners don’t do it.

Do consider the timing
Be sensitive if he/she has lot someone or is no well don’t break up with him/her then wait till he/she is fine enough to receive the news.

Don’t be too honest
Don’t tell him or her your are leaving her for her bad breath, bad habits or even that you have found a hotter woman/better man.
Bad breath, bad habits, hotter woman

]]> By: Scott http://www.lifespy.com/2007/how-to-break-up/comment-page-1/#comment-69178 Scott Sun, 14 Oct 2007 02:47:33 +0000 http://www.lifespy.com/2007/how-to-break-up/#comment-69178 Good start. There's a lot to breaking up... I posted my own guide at AspireNow - feel free to cross-reference. Thanks and have a good night! http://www.aspirenow.com/smooth_03_02_aspirenow_breakup_guide.htm Good start. There’s a lot to breaking up… I posted my own guide at AspireNow – feel free to cross-reference.

Thanks and have a good night!

http://www.aspirenow.com/smooth_03_02_aspirenow_breakup_guide.htm

]]> By: Michael http://www.lifespy.com/2007/how-to-break-up/comment-page-1/#comment-22299 Michael Fri, 20 Apr 2007 17:40:15 +0000 http://www.lifespy.com/2007/how-to-break-up/#comment-22299 Thanks Alex. Thanks Alex.

]]> By: Alex http://www.lifespy.com/2007/how-to-break-up/comment-page-1/#comment-22190 Alex Fri, 20 Apr 2007 08:23:31 +0000 http://www.lifespy.com/2007/how-to-break-up/#comment-22190 This is one topic I couldn't write about. I have no personal experience with break-ups. Great article, Michael. This is one topic I couldn’t write about. I have no personal experience with break-ups.

Great article, Michael.

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