03 Jun
Posted by Alex as Behavior and Ethics, Food

We’ve been in this situation at one or more points in our dining existence. Not all restaurants are guaranteed to live up to reputations or have one at all. We may not always get what we want right off the bat. It may be the cold soup (or a fly in the soup!) or the lousy waiter but as trivial as they come, a little bad thing can turn an otherwise much-anticipated dining experience into a disaster.
However, these things can be averted just by acting swiftly, a little patience and a dash of tact. Here are some tips on making a restaurant complaint.
Timing
Remember, act immediately. Waiting until you’re halfway through or have finished the meal is the worst time to complain about bad food. Doing so will only give you and the restaurant much to talk and argue about. The longer you make the complaint, the longer your horrible dining experience would go.
Reason and Intent
When complaining be sure to be concrete of the reason. Be exact of what about the food or the service are you going to point out. Then think of what you want to achieve. Do you want a replacement or the food canceled off the bill. If you’re just out to heckle people or to get a free meal then don’t even bother.
Food
There are many things about the food that you can complain about. The easiest one to point out would be hygiene issue. If that’s the case, you would not even bother to demand a replacement. You’d rather leave the restaurant without being billed. That would be a reasonable stand and the restaurant would undoubtedly understand.
Some things can be averted just when ordering. Make sure you ask the waiter about certain ingredients that you are allergic too. They may be included in the meal that you’re ordering.
If it’s generally an inedible meal, ask politely if you can have a replacement meal. Most places would grant you such a request without even billing you with the inedible one.
Dealing with the Waiter
As a business restaurants do focus on both product and service. Your waiter is there to be of service so it’s part of his job to serve you and address your concerns. If he’s a rude bugger, then you may want to escalate the issue to the manager.
As for tipping, if you really had a lousy service, then you might not want to tip at all. But don’t make fuss just to weasel your way out of tipping. But if the waiter did an excellent good job despite the lousy food (like if he gave you a discount or offered replacements), then tipping is a must.
Dealing with the Manager
Things could escalate when your requests aren’t resolved the way you like it. Ask politely to see the manager more often than not, managers are more compromising as the restaurant wouldn’t want to see you speaking directly with the manager for a complaint. Other diners might get the cue that something is horribly wrong.
Just be transparent with the manager. Point out what you’re complaining about and what you want to do about it.
Just remember to:
11 Responses
hortencia rose
June 15th, 2007 at 9:38 pm
1I had a very bad experience with a shakeys pizza it was so dirty I had paid for a big salad plate for my son almost 5 dlls worth and we did not check out the salad bar first but when we saw it our jaws dropped wilted lettuce the cucumbers sumerged in water the grossest salad bar you can imagine so my son got a couple of pieces of lettuce the best pieces and croutons because everything was grosse I told the manager about it and got somebody to change the cucumbers and get lettuce so I told my son serve yourself a right amount the manager told me no he already served himself once and that is all he can get I told him did you check out the salad bar yourself and he proceeded to argue with me and I told him I am going to report you the restrooms are so dirty the floor is disgusting water on the floor this is the shakeys restaurant on cesar chaves in los angeles
Alex
June 17th, 2007 at 11:23 pm
2If sanitation is the problem, you may consult with your local sanitation bureau or office in your town/city/county and file a complaint there. There are sanitation standards that every food establishment must comply to. Non-compliance can have their operating licenses revoked.
connie gotch
June 22nd, 2007 at 9:11 pm
3LUCILLE’S Snokehouse abd BBQ is awful
Had briskjet that was so chewy, couldn’t swollow any of it…then went back and had baby back ribs that were dry, cold inedible, Baked mac and cheese was Kraftm in “water”,,,unable to contact corp office as there is no telwe number for them…
wht a rip off
linette maillant
August 1st, 2008 at 2:36 pm
4Today I had lunchiwith a guest in a so-called French bistro restaurant on 147 Spadina Avenue Toronto, called: Chez Jules. what a bluff (expensive bluff). This is a shame. Most of specialities listed on the menu were not available. We were left with a poor ordinary choice (ordinary stuff with prestigious French names) served in small quantities, on old wooden tables,,, no tablechoth. The dessert was called Tarte Tatin which is supposed to be layers of sliced apple backed with butter and covered with caramelized sugar. Instead they served us a portion of overcooked thin mouchy wet dough covered with overcooked fruit, dark color, with a bitter taste (burnt sugar has a bitter taste).Mouchy half fruit: we could not identify if it was haf a pear or half apple, trickling on a wet thin dough. I sent it back, but, according to the staff, the chef had the audacity to declare that all was perfectly good. We paid 75 dollars for 2 people, for small quantity of food, very ordinary with pompous French name. They call themselves French Bistro. I was born and bread in French that this was not Tarte Tatin, that crepes was all dried up around, no taste, and we wont even serve this stuff to the dogs. I wonder in which country this chef was trained. I call it: imposture – deception – Very disappointed, really and so much money for eating nothing good
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December 22nd, 2008 at 3:23 am
5[...] If you have other service complaints, let me hear about them and perhaps we could demand the respect and appropriate action from these companies. If you want to learn how to write a complaint letter, you can check out the draft from Consumerist. And here are tips from Life Spy if you want to complain about bad food service. [...]
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December 22nd, 2008 at 3:25 am
6[...] If you have other service complaints, let me hear about them and perhaps we could demand the respect and appropriate action from these companies. If you want to learn how to write a complaint letter, you can check out the draft from Consumerist. And here are tips from Life Spy if you want to complain about bad food service. [...]
thin Plastic in naan (bread)... the worst experience at Passage of India :(
April 2nd, 2009 at 5:09 pm
7We had the worst experience in our life last week while being in Orlando at Passage to India Restaurant (7618 W. Irlo Bronson Hwy /192, Kissimmee, FL 34747, Ph. 407-396-6957). We found thin plastic sheets one after another in three different kinds of naan (kind of bread). It got inserted in these naan while spreading the dough on thin plastic; but the cook didn’t bother to remove it while roasting and intentionally ignored. The manager apologized… and didn’t make the bill. It was too late in the night and we left the restaurant without any proof of this horrible incident but we took pictures of this plastic naans. When the naan was hot/ warm, the plastic got too soft and can break easily. Now we are afraid about what’s next if we and our 3 and 5 yrs children have eaten it? … certainly horrific… Is there any way that we can stop these irresponsible restaurant guys stop feeding people death caused plastic and get justice???
neth feliciano
August 28th, 2009 at 10:44 pm
8I’m engaged in banking industry located in makati..I’ve been there for 5 yrs til now…I love pizza & pasta and shakeys have one of the best(i think so as of last thurs)..My officemate & I dine at shakeys rada makati branch last thurs(aug 27,2009).I ordered my fav meal which is the super platter meal.. then as I mix the spag I noticed a foreign object laying freshly at the pasta(black cockroach about a small button in size with all its parts tightly attached with its body-but its already dead)….so i called the OIC(the mgr is currently unavailable) to take a look at the foreign object…I ask her”what’s this?”then she looked and answered “naku pasensya na po..(I’m so sorry)”she didn’t even offered anything she just keep on saying”pasensya na po…”then I ask her”what should we do?”then she said”we will just replace the order”,” I replied “what??you will replace the order coming fr the same batch of spag?”then she explain how they cook their spag etc..since we’re starving we still ate at the restaurant same meal with different pasta(carbonara instead)..I don’t know what to do that time..I was shocked!hello its shakeys!how come that it happens to me!?…then we asked for the bill..at the receipts there’s was a vip 10% discount..so we assumed its because of what happen..as we left the resto we didn’t even saw the shadow of the OIC…I can even took a picture or video of what happen and post it in the net but Im not that kind of person I find hassel and I always believe that the first time is always an accident but a second time I don’t know……I’m just wondering what will the executive comm of shakeys will do if they knew about this????I’m fortunate that time that I was wearing my 300 graded eyeglasses..what if I’m with my bare eyes what have been happen to me???
Himal Sharma
February 17th, 2010 at 3:32 pm
9I went to “Chefs of India” restaurant in chattham street cary, Nc. last week. I found the cockroach in the dessert (rice Kheer), plates were not cleaned well and the food was cold, not hot enough. I told the woner Mr. Kiran this things very nicely. I was thinking he will fix the problem but he said it I am the only person who is complaining. I showed him the cockroach and he said it happened in the restaurant. I was surprise to hear that from the woner of the rerstaurant. He further said “I did not call you into my restaurant so get out now” there were other people eating food they were surprised. He used bad word that I can not write here and I was with my sister. She said let us go. Eventhough it was bad food and worst behave and service (he said get out) i paid full amount and left the palce, where I will not be back ever.
Cheryl Williams
March 26th, 2010 at 2:47 pm
10I live in pennington on the south coast. Idrove all the way to mykonos on the north coast of durban. we made reservations for 5 people. on arrival we noticed that the place was very busy, the buffet table looked so bad, but my husband insisted that we came so far we should eat, thinking that at least the food would be good. The food was terrible , it was bland,meaning it had no taste, it was also cold. Iasked for the manager, and asked him if we could go away from the diningroom so he could taste the food as it was tasting terrible. The manager spoke to me in a loud voice saying that this is strange, the restaurant is so packed and nobody else is complaining, and refused to taste the food. I told him I that I could not sit and it the food, i will rather leave, his reply was I think so too, just pay before you go. I only spent 10 min in the restaurant until we walked out, I was billed R80 per person just because we dished up the food and had 2 mouthfulls. We were a party of 5 people. I really need to report this to someone to sort this restaurant out. How many people are prepared to pay R120 for a buffet and yet the owners are not interested in the diners. I am an excellent cook, when I tell u the food is bad believe me,
mel
August 28th, 2010 at 11:53 am
11i live in kuala lumpur. last friday( 27.20.2010) myself, my sister & my friendz went out for steamboat buffet dinner at restoran Kak Eita located at Wanga Maju, desa setapak.cost about RM 40.00
it was raining & we had make reservation few days ealier.
the table arrangemnt was really bad. since we came in big group , 10 of us i requested better place but there is no respone on my request.
because there is no other table i have to get wet.
it was 7.30pm & all the food is already finish . i inform the staff that there is no food but i was been attack by owner of the restaraunt.
he was realy rude, try to tearting me.talking in bad language.
to avoid big mess i just leave the restaraunt.
but he still ask me to pay, eventhough i didnt eat much until cost rm 40.00
is not matter of paying, if come & explain the situation. i still wil understand.
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