There is no clear-cut and surefire formula for true love. But when two people are always understanding and respecting each other, their individual differences are addressed in such a way that they end up closer than ever. Read on below and find out how you can develop a more emotional connection with your partner.

Know when to talk things out. Sometimes an uncalled for fight breaks out when you want to discuss issues with your partner and your partner is just not in the mood for serious talk. You should know when to pick the right moments – when to talk about that money problem, the jealousy issues, or about your kids. Even though you expect your partner to be most cooperative when you feel the need to discuss vital issues, the most sure-fire way is to talk when things aren’t so crabby and irritable. On his best mood, you can talk about almost anything in a most lovingly manner.

Be positive. Not just about the outcome of your attempt to understand each other better but be positive on how you discuss things. For example, in telling your husband that he should be more attentive to you, you can say “I just want you to know I appreciate it when we connect like this..and I hope we can do this more often”, instead of “You’re not giving me enough attention”. Being critical almost automatically makes your partner defensive and will therefore stir up unwanted argument.

Be honest. Sometimes we can’t tell our partner everything that bothers us and it ends up in a gap between you and your partner. Failing to talk over issues that truly matter to you can have bigger impacts later on. It is wise to be honest to each other, so you can build trust.