Healthy relationships are maintained through proper communication. Ever lost track of a friend just because you don’t see or talk to each other anymore? While highly unlikely to happen with family members, since you’re all under one roof, lack of communication can put a strain. Some family members may feel neglected, underappreciated or even unloved. And one way to keep lines open is to listen.

Carry a civil tone. Always carrying a bossy and intimidating tone with your kids may establish your authority but chances are you’d get control through fear. So better carry a lighter tone.

Make your home a sanctuary. You may have had a tough day at work and you have that murderous plans for your boss. Don’t take it out on your kids or spouse. Your day maybe frustrating but remember that your home shouldn’t be a home for those frustrations. Try to change your pace as soon as you step on through your door.

Don’t make conversations a highlighted activity. Forget those recommended talk-time sessions you’ve seen on TV. You might just find it a little too awkward to handle. Instead, try to talk through small-talk. Converse while doing chores, out shopping, in the car - just about any opportunity you have together.

Listen. Plainly hearing things is not listening. Listening entails paying attention to every detail - the words, the tone, even the non-verbal cues. 60% of the message lies in the way the person looks at you, the position of their hands, the way the foot fidgets. And when you listen, listen sympathetically. It creates that “caring” feeling between you.

Respect space. While you have to strive to talk in every opportunity, make sure that you also give others their personal space. We all want to have our own private moments so give others theirs.