21 Jan
Posted by Alex as Attitude and Outlook, Behavior and Ethics, Communication, Education

Here’s another post that could help you in your quest for truth. Or to have something “intelligent” to share in your next boring company party and amaze your bosses. It pays to be a Smart Alec(x) know-it-all at times.
James*’ post on how to tell if someone is lying is still one of the popular searches in this site. It’s a great read. I bet after reading that one, you started trying it out with people, trying to catch them if they’re making something out or not with that little mental checklist waiting to exclaim “Gotcha! You big fat liar.” Or maybe that’s just me. I know you’re all good people.
Now, in the comments, Andrew Clarke raised a very interesting idea that came from Neuro-Linguistic Programming. You can read his comment here. Our friend Andrew’s referring to Visual Accessing Cues (VAC). It’s taken from this book, “Frogs into Princes: Neuro Linguistic Programming.”
It’s not exactly a way to tell if someone’s lying but a way to tell whether the person is making things up (constructing) on his/her mind or remembering (Hence I might be using a misleading title, bash me please). It’s quite confusing at first but I’ll try to simplify it as best as I can (tough!).
First of, you have to know the person’s dominant hand. Then, observe the person’s eye movement. The direction of movement tells whether a sensory image is either remembered or constructed (made up). Here’s a diagram showing how it should work with right-handed people:

Try these with someone to check. Give them these instructions and follow their eye movements:
I learned about VAC years ago back in my college freshman days. We had this professor who taught non-verbal communication and he shared this one in class. As far as our own class went, we found out that most of this is quite accurate through peer experimentation. There’s even this girl who caught her cheat of a boyfriend because of this!
I know most critics would dispute this as a load of claptrap. But this as far as my personal experiences with it, it’s got a good batting average.
Here’s a similar article on this topic.
5 Responses
How to Tell If Your Guy is Lying
September 13th, 2007 at 5:28 pm
1[...] the lie. Observe unusual blinking of the eyes. That is associated to lying. Here’s a post on Visual Accessing Cues – telling if a person is making things up or not by the way their eyes [...]
maddesyn reser
August 18th, 2008 at 1:47 pm
2i dont get it
AliasP
February 20th, 2009 at 8:13 pm
3I came across this through a google search.
I’m a bit confused though. Your diagram and explanation is opposite of that depicted on Blifaloo (http://www.blifaloo.com/info/lies_eyes.php)
Where you claim for a right-hander the constructs would be to the right, Blifaloo states they are to the left. Same with the Rememberance.
The only similarities is that the Kinesthetics and Internal Dialogs match.
And of course, for a lefty (myself), the signs would be swapped. So what I ask then is this: Who’s diagram is correct? As I’m reading Blifaloo, the comments posted there seem to imply that their diagram is the correct version.
Hope you can clarify. Sorry for digging up an old post, but it is intriguing me.
Josh Geer
April 8th, 2009 at 11:59 am
4Hey, i just wanted to say that AliasP was absolutely correct, when someone’s right hand is dominant then the remember by looking to the left, though this is not always the case, sometimes it is best to ask them to remember things and analyze where they look then ask them to make something up such as, “Imagine a pink elephant running on the beach.” Because, some people are different, an individual in the way they think.
AlyssaN
May 25th, 2009 at 10:07 pm
5to AliasP: you are correct, constructed memories are to the left, but this site is in agreement with the other site you saw. The diagram is if you were facing the person. So it shows constructed memories on YOUR right, but on the person who you’re facing’s left. So if your looking at someone you have to remember that if they’re making something up from YOUR perspective their looking up and to the right. But if your the own making something up, you’d be looking to your left (if your right handed)
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