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Ask for a Date

If you’re a guy, it’s pretty normal to be shaken up when planning to ask a girl you like out for a date. Unless you’re too much of a cock, it’s pretty understandable that you feel this way. Thoughts race through your head but the inevitable fear is the fear of “No.”

Well, this really depends on the girl but otherwise, all you can do from your side is to improve your chances of getting the “Yes.” Knowing how to ask her is a really important thing, so here are some ideas on how.

The Self
Women love guys who are interesting and have a great sense of humor. And you can’t be that if you’re too stiff and nervous. It’s just a date. It’s not like you’re proposing or something.

The Line
“Hey, hot momma, you just won a date with the luuuvmachine” has a 99.99% chance of landing you on the curb. And “Hi, would you go out on a date with me” is just too forward. Practice a line that suits the moment and less intimidating like “Would you like to have some coffee sometime.” It’s casual but it assures you of some time with her.

The Timing
Like telling joke, the punch line depends much on timing. You don’t just want to sneak up to her and ask this. If you’ve watched too many romantic comedy flicks and teen movies, then you might have some slight idea on how. Believe me, those are the movies. You’re better off asking in a casual encounter. Asking her face to face is the best way. It’s much better as you can focus on non-verbal cues. Calling her up is another option. Just don’t call her up 2 AM in the morning to chat. As for online means, I personally am not a big fan but to some extent they work do, especially for eyeball meet-ups. But if you’ve met face to face before, it’s better to go with the first two options.

The Chat-up
In an encounter, greet her with a smile and a confident hello. Don’t try to make too many associations if you really haven’t been acquainted. Just make a brief introduction and how you happen to know and see her. Try to extend the conversation a bit by exploring some topics that you know might interest her. Focus on her body language, they tell a lot.

The Conversation
Be confident and sincere. Look into her eyes and listen. Women sense good conversationalists and good listeners. This also gives her a preview of what to expect on a date (even if you haven’t really asked). Women hate bores.

The Drop of the Dime
If the chat goes well, then you can now use “the line.” If she says “Yes,” be sure to have a ready suggestion when and where. Sorting out schedules will be an easier task with the “Yes” answer. This is also a good time to get her number and give yours. If she says “No,” then take like a man. Rejection stings but it’s not good to think “B*tch!” while the conversation is running. If she’s on the so-so mark, try to exchange numbers or at least, give yours. At least you can keep in touch. End the conversation by saying it was great talking to her with hopes of meeting her again or confirm the time and place for your first date.

Next Steps
If you got a “Yes,” then pat yourself on the back for a job well done. If otherwise, give yourself some credit too. Getting to ask someone is a learning experience. And who knows, with a great chat, she just might reconsider.

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