P.S. I need some good ways to ask a girl out so if you could please help on that subject too. It would be greatly appreciated.

Now for me I have a boyfriend that has given me some reasons in the past not to trust him. I love him and we’ve been together for a long time but I think he keeps things from me, things he doesn’t have to hide cause I’m a very laid back chick and I don’t freak out easy. However the other night he had a friend stop by and the guy had a new girlfriend she was out in the truck so he asked us to go out and meet her. We walked out to the truck and when we got to the window she hollars DICKYYYY!!!!!!!! Dicky or Rich is what I call him “my boyfriend” . Any way then his friend says Oh let me introduce you this is the first time you guys are meeting! Now I’m thinking he’s covering what just happened. To me when you first meet someone you don’t hollar DICKYYYYYY!!!! Before the introduction. Yes Tom, his friend could have told her ” I have to stop over my buddy Dicky’s house” So then she’d know the name but still why would she hollar it out like that so long and drawn out like she’s known him forever! It just doesn’t add up. I wanna know you guy’s input on this situation. Please don’t say just dump him cause if you don’t have trust you don’t have a relationship. I am a sensitive a psychic of sorts. No I can’t just use my psychic powers to figure this out either I’m not a full blown psychic. But that does cause me to question things more cause I get vibes off em & that I can’t help it would be like this in every relationship.Thanks so much Take Care & God Bless!!!!

Right now this is the summer I’m transitionig from 8th grade to high school. There is this girl I liked since 6th grade. In 7th grade I was put into the same science class as she was. I talked to her sometimes when we were put together as partners. She was also in my gym class and i would talk to her not very often. In the beginning of of 8th grade I was in her science, math, and study skills. Later in the year I transfered into a higher math class and she would talk about how lonely it got because one or two students trasffered out after I was. I was known to be the guy who would eat anything. Our science teacher would give out *samples* of disgusting things and I took them. One time he electrified a big pickle and I asked if I could eat it. He let me have a bite and it was disgusting. I did these things to be funny and it worked. A day after or two I became known as the guy who ate the pickle. She sat behind me in that class. So when she saw my bad grades she would say things like ouch and that’s sucks. We talked once in a while and once I was in study skills I talked to her more often because all our class does does is do our homework and socialize. Sometimes I would tease her just for fun. Once summer came my best friend had a birthday party shared with a girl who were family friends with them. They had they’re friends over including me and the girl I liked. Once it started to become late my friends started to leave the party so at the end it was me, my best friend, and the friends that the girl invited. We were all in the basement talking. Then someone starts talking about how far have we gotten in a relationship. Me, who’s hasn’t been on a date sat on the ground sulking. Then they asked me who do I like? With the girl I like sitting beside me I didn’t want to make it awkward so I said I didn’t know yet. After I said that it looked like the girl who I liked had her head down dissapointingly. I gave her my phone number but she hasn’t texted me or called. I am worried that now I’m going to high school I might not see her more recently.

I am wondering does she like me and what should I do?

1. Making her laugh is so important. Once she starts laughing she will almost immediately feel more comfortable with you.

2. Don’t show off too much. Girls want to be able to be themselves around you. And to make that happen you need to be who you really are with them. This doesn’t mean you can tell her your mom still dresses you, or that you never go out because you’re busy playing video games in your basement on your own hehe.

3. Believe me… I know it’s hard to start a conversation with a girl you’ve never really met before. Let alone keep one going. I’m not sure how each and every person does it, but I tend to try and make everything seem less serious, I know that we are both feeling awkward, so i try to make it a little more awkard, but in a funny way. Anyone can make a situation awkward, can’t they? For example, if we’re both a little silent, i’ll say “Nice weather today huh?” Just try and joke around, it will ease things up. If she doesn’t laugh or giggle back, it’s either she’s not interested in me, she thinks i’m lame, or she is not very intelligent. And to be honest, i’m not interested in a girl that thinks i’m lame, or one that isn’t intelligent enough to appreciate my humor.

Though some people think it’s ok coz hey, it’s not the 16th century anymore, we’re modernetc, it’s more because sometimes in the eyes of others girls who ask guys out = desperate, sluttish, etc.

Generally speaking, most people will still think it normal if a guy asks a girl out, but will find a girl asking a guy out a little more surprising.

Or at least that’s how it works around where I live…