http://www.lifespy.com/2007/personality-changing-for-the-better/ analyzing lifestyles Wed, 03 Dec 2008 07:14:19 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5.1 http://www.lifespy.com/2007/personality-changing-for-the-better/#comment-274378 Sarah Mon, 24 Nov 2008 23:34:39 +0000 http://www.lifespy.com/2007/personality-changing-for-the-better/#comment-274378 I listed 7 things I hate about myself and 8 things I love about myself....bassically the majority of the things I hate about myself is how I act and react in public situations where I sometimes face anxiety and feel nervous. Whereas the majority of the things I listed on what I loved about myself was how I normally act when completley relaxed which in most cases is just at home with my family. Im at the point where I want to improve in those areas and be relaxed wherever I go which I know could open so many doors and oppurtunities for me. I wish to change would be as simle as pushing a button but sense its not I will continue to trust God and put forth a concentrated effort to change for the better. I listed 7 things I hate about myself and 8 things I love about myself….bassically the majority of the things I hate about myself is how I act and react in public situations where I sometimes face anxiety and feel nervous. Whereas the majority of the things I listed on what I loved about myself was how I normally act when completley relaxed which in most cases is just at home with my family. Im at the point where I want to improve in those areas and be relaxed wherever I go which I know could open so many doors and oppurtunities for me. I wish to change would be as simle as pushing a button but sense its not I will continue to trust God and put forth a concentrated effort to change for the better.

]]> http://www.lifespy.com/2007/personality-changing-for-the-better/#comment-110196 Depressed and Working to be Happy Sat, 12 Jan 2008 02:34:18 +0000 http://www.lifespy.com/2007/personality-changing-for-the-better/#comment-110196 I agree that sometimes we make goals for ourselves that are not realistic, or we see things in ourselves that are really not the case because it is to hard for us to see us and our faults, but if we set something as a goal and it has a physical habit then we have to set it as something we do instead of just thinking of what we should be doing. I have manic depression and it is very easy for me to say today I am going to be happy but really unless I do something that makes me happy I am probably going to have a bad day. I have to make sure that I am in control of my behaviors so that my thoughts will follow. Also do the research to see what you need to do to be successful in what it is you want. It will be different for everyone but no one can just do it over night so take that in to account and plan ahead to be a happy healthy successful person. I agree that sometimes we make goals for ourselves that are not realistic, or we see things in ourselves that are really not the case because it is to hard for us to see us and our faults, but if we set something as a goal and it has a physical habit then we have to set it as something we do instead of just thinking of what we should be doing.
I have manic depression and it is very easy for me to say today I am going to be happy but really unless I do something that makes me happy I am probably going to have a bad day. I have to make sure that I am in control of my behaviors so that my thoughts will follow. Also do the research to see what you need to do to be successful in what it is you want. It will be different for everyone but no one can just do it over night so take that in to account and plan ahead to be a happy healthy successful person.

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