Every girl’s fairy tale includes the special day when the man she loves would go down on his knees and pop the question. But what if the girl wants to give the relationship a little twist and do the popping herself instead of just waiting for the guy?

Proposing had always been the guy’s function since time immemorial. But now girls are starting to ask, “Can’t a girl propose?”. If you’re one of these daring girls, cheers to your courage! But no matter how brave you are for considering it, you must admit that just like a guy, you too are struggling on how to do it. But guess what! We’ll help you get started!

Is your guy ready? The scary part of a guy’s proposal is when the girl says no. That is also your challenge. Evaluate your relationship and assess your guy’s percentage of saying YES. Proposing means you are inviting the other to take the relationship to the next level. This will require the relationship to be strong enough to handle a more serious, and a deeper commitment to each other. So, what are the chances your guy will say YES?

Plan it out carefully. Maybe you already have a vision in your mind how the proposal will happen. But after you have daydreamed this special day, snap back to reality and take ample time to point out the things that could go wrong. Things like a bad weather or family crisis can happen and get in the way of your plans so always have a Plan B.