Workplace Watch: How to Deal with Workplace Bullies
In a previous post, we’ve pointed out some tips on dealing with workplace fiends. However, we’ve only dealt with fiendish co-workers in general but here are some tips on how to deal with one type (and probably the worst type) of annoying co-workers – the bully.
Just when you think you’ve had enough of them in school, the bullies followed you at work. Usually in the form of a boss, the bully hurts everyone – physically, emotionally, and more painful – mentally. Sometimes the hassle of having an incessant bully makes you think of quitting your job. But you know you shouldn’t go through the trouble of another job application just because someone is terrorizing you in the office. Read up and refuse to be a victim.
Policy. Observe your office’s policy and unspoken rule about harassment. The office should be free from any form of violence and tyranny. You don’t expect a boss to be very sympathetic. Above everything else, your boss has only expectations. A compassionate boss is very unlikely but is a real treasure.
Fight back at the first sign of cruelty. If you start noticing that a co-worker is trying to terrorize you, stand up and let that bully know that you’re not to be intimidated. Don’t cower the first time. Snap back instead.
Power play is not welcome. Boss or not, power play is damaging and should be pointed out every time just to make sure that it doesn’t happen again. Harassment in the office can lead to discouragement and can create an undesirable working environment.
September 20, 2007 Thursday at 7:37 am