Every budding romance starts magically – he’s a dream come true and he treats you like a princess. At the onset of a relationship, everything seems meant to be. But most often than not, sparks are put out as quickly as it has started. At this time in your life, your thinking, you’re too old to be wasting time with flings. So why not assess if the relationship you’re in is good to last a lifetime? And if it’s less than ideal, you can use these as tips on how you can be stronger as a couple.

Physical attraction should be strong. There are stories of Beauty and the Beast, and there’s also the cheerleader and the quarterback. Whichever fairytale you prefer, physical attraction is of critical importance for a relationship to last. Unless you’re into marrying aging moguls, your choice of a partner should reflect your type. Think of it this way – you’re going to wake up everyday to that same face. Can you take it?

Do you yearn for each other? Is having your partner around so much fun that the only time you don’t miss each other is when you’re together? Looking forward to the next time you see your partner is a sign that you’re very fond of the company.

Do you feel strongly committed to this person? The level of commitment you’re willing to give depends strongly on the intensity of your attachment to a person. If you feel strongly attached to your partner, your future plans most probably include him/her. S/he becomes a priority and you attain peace of mind in knowing that you’re in a relationship that brings out the best in both of you.