Fortunately for you, girls also get attracted to confidence. So you don’t have to look like a model to get a date. All you have to do is to get out of your shell and out into the open where girls can freely marvel at your charisma.

Watch the things you say. When a boy is around the girl that he likes, he’ll either fold or become pompous. Your goal is to be suave, yet sensitive. When the girl you like suddenly comes towards you, don’t think about doing things which might impress her because chances are you’re going to make a fool out of yourself. Just be your usual happy self and she’ll see how fun you are.

Don’t be obvious. It’s flattering for the girl to know that you like her but if you come on too strongly, you’re not playing it right.

Know your assets. Being confident is not a button you can just push and then voila! you’re Mr. Confidence. It has to be in your system so it will become natural. This can be achieved by talking to your mom and closest friends. Fish for compliments. Make them tell you how wonderful you are and why you’re the man. Hearing good things from those you love will surely lift your spirits and give you that positive attitude that will shine through.

Practice. Flirting around might earn you a bad reputation, so it’s best to do it somewhere far from your real prospect. Flirting is a skill so practice will make it more subtle and effective.

Know the things she likes. If you have no idea how to be on her good side, then you’re just going to end up pulling a trial and error method. But if you know what catches her interests, you’ll be confident on your words and actions. So do your research so you’ll be armed and ready the next time you talk to her.