You might come to a point where you feel there’s a need to rethink your relationships and whether or not it’s worth fighting for. Between lovers, if you’re not getting what you want in a relationship, maybe you shouldn’t have to stay. But if you can’t leave as well, then you’ll have to go through the whole process of fixing your relationship where it needs a little more lovin’.

Your passion is waning and you don’t remember why you fell in love in the first place. Look back and review your history together. How long have you been together? Couples who have been together for a long time go way back but sometimes forget why they fell in love.

Are your needs clear to your partner? As much as you want your partner to be sensitive, mind-reading is a stretch. So instead of giving your partner the cold shoulders, be very clear about what you want from the relationship.

You’re done begging for attention. When your relationship attains stability, there is a sense of assurance which might cause a laid-back attitude towards each other. Where stability is precious in any partnership, it can also render you into actually behaving or seemingly disinterested towards each other.

If you ignore such budding uncertainties, you might wake up one day completely distant — and this is a point where couples won’t normally recover from.