Marriage is not exactly everyone’s road to happily ever after. Sometimes it happens that marriage will be nothing like you imagined. Because as it happened, your husband is having an extra-marital affair. And perhaps there will never be a manual that will render you master of your emotions when in this condition, but you can definitely help yourself go through this difficult stage in your life.

Go through the legal stuff. Divorce is definitely a mucky stuff. So get all the legal issues done and over with. Probably why it’s always good to sign a prenuptial agreement.

Never lose your self-worth. Many people develop insecurity problems when their husbands pursue other women. This is understandable. The tendency is to think that there is something wrong with oneself and focusing on one’s flaws. But understand that in trying to analyze where you went wrong, you will inevitably reach the conclusion that it is your fault why your marriage is on the rocks. And why would you give yourself more pain instead of just helping yourself move on?

Acknowledging the simple fact that it’s over. And you don’t have to blame anyone, especially not yourself.
Accept that the only way for you now is forward. There really is no one else who can help you more than yourself. Pull yourself together and don’t look back.

Give yourself another shot at love. Let yourself have fun without feeling any guilt over it. Enjoy the freedom of being single again. This means that you can date and you can have a new relationship. Don’t be scared to love again because you deserve to be loved again, too. Just give it some time, though. “Love” on the rebound is almost always doomed to fail too.