No one is too old to get an education. Many married folks nowadays realize this so you see them continuing their education by actually enrolling in classes at the community college, or even at universities, while most take up distance learning. Unfortunately, this takes special attention as other priorities, such as family and career, need to be balanced out. So how do adult learners with busy family and professional lives handle this demanding but definitely rewarding endeavor?

Create a study space. This doesn’t have to be an office. It’s just a small area in your house where you can keep your study materials and work (relatively) undisturbed. Make your children and spouse know that this are is sacred so distractions should be kept at a minimum. Tell your smaller kids that when Mom or Dad can’t be disturbed if he or she is in his or her study space, unless it is very important.

Take more courses online. This allows you to schedule studying and working on your course work more flexibly. You can log on when the kids are away at school during the day, or when they have finally settled down to bed in the evening.

Get the whole family involved. Your family and friends need to know that completing your course is very important to you, so their support is very much appreciated. Try to spread the chores at home, so that your older kids can wash the dishes while you finish a term paper. Arrange “I get to cook” two nights a week with the spouse or even the children. By doing this, you not only get more time to study, but you teach your family (especially the kids) of sharing responsibilities.

In return, don’t forget to thank them for their patience and understanding. Verbalize your thanks then give them special treats, such as a wonderful dinner on Saturday nights, or a shopping trip with your daughter or son, or a romantic nigh-out with the spouse. Celebrate!