So you won a date from the hottest hottie in your office. But now what? You call for reservations at a nice restaurant, go to the salon for a trim, and buy a new outfit – all in preparation for the big date on the big day. That’s plan A. But what if your date turns out to be gross? What if what if it went really well that you’d do anything for a more intimate activity later that night? I say you also have a plan B.

You can’t be dating and not know how to escape from a date mistake. Hmm, now what seems a better excuse, feigning a migraine or making your phone ring and pretend you have an emergency call so urgent you had to leave right away? While it’s very exhilarating to think up ways on how to escape from your, it would also be very unfair and insincere. When you’re stuck in this kind of situation just be frank and honestly tell your date that it’s not working. It’s a dating reality!

People sometimes don’t know how far they should go on their first date. Should they kiss? Is hugging too much? If the attraction is growing stronger by the minute between you two, going all the way might seem to be a good idea, but then again think, how long have you been waiting to feel a connection with another person? Can you risk ruining a chance at a lasting romance because you felt like doing it on the first date? Speed-dating doesn’t even say you should take things fast in this category. Give it more time. Anticipation is an all time high when you have a budding romance.