
The most ambitious people live in the city. In your opinion, how true is this statement? The city offers a fast-paced life. This is why people prefer to live here, and yet, this is also exactly why people choose living in a small town. If you’re living in the city and is now considering to move out, you will find that while you’re sure to make major adjustments, living in a small town is not exactly unbearable as you thought it would be.
If you’ve known the small town where you’re moving as a place where you grew up, or if you’ve lived there before, you will find that everything is not as unfamiliar and strange. Small towns usually have lower levels of pollution, less complicated policies, and more often than not, better relationships between neighbors. These do not apply to all cases. But when it does, it’s when small towns are believed to be more capable to give you a more “peaceful” life. And this is why some people find happiness in that small corner of the world.
Don’t cut your connection from the rest of the world. There’s Internet and cable plus a lot of other modern things which you can subscribe to, to make sure that you’re always in the loop. Know what’s happening in the world so you won’t feel like an exile. Subscribe to at least one big city newspaper so you will always be updated with what’s happening in the place where you used to live.
Be involved. Small towns are in a state of expansion and development. They need modern thinkers like you who can lead them to more advanced ways of doing things. Volunteer your talent to initiatives of churches, hospitals, and fire brigades. Doing this will make you more committed to your community and will help you appreciate your new home.
Be wary of traditions. Small towns pride themselves in a handful of traditions so be prepared to adjust yourself to some of them. Small towns might also have festivities and celebrations at least once a year. No matter how crazy the fest might be, just be open. Remember, you’re part of it now.
Lean back and enjoy the quiet life. Small towns would have their own ways of handling things. If being a city slicker has created in you a sense of “always action” then be prepared to have a more laid back experience in a small town.
2 Responses
Robin
November 25th, 2008 at 8:19 am
1They need modern thinkers like you who can lead them to more advanced ways of doing things.
If people moving to small towns believe this they’re going to make enemies quickly. If you’re moving to a small town, move there because you like what’s there now. If you want “advanced ways,” stay in the city. We don’t think those ways are advanced. This is what you’ve chosen, presumably because you like what small town life has to offer. Move in, embrace small town life and enjoy your new lifestyle! We welcome folks who don’t want to change our way of life.
TMP
December 8th, 2008 at 11:26 am
2Think twice, maybe three times before moving to a small town. Unless you have a job, family or friends in the area it’s likely to be a hard go.
I moved to a town of 12,000 , county 40,0000 two years ago and though I’ve tried to integrate myself, no luck. The place is remarkably unfriendly to outsiders.
Small towns are no place to try and go it alone, unless you enjoy living like a recluse. Over the weekend I dropped off toys and food for a local drive. When I came into the room, the locals left. Since no one recognized me there was no reason to stay around and chat.
I do like my affordable home and acre of land, lower property taxes. But there are high sales taxes, limited internet access and no broadband.
I’ve met a number of relative necomers who have the same compliant, even with jobs, kids in school and church affliations.
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