While this post will not tell you if you’re happy in your present love affair. But it will look into your love life so that you will start assessing if you are getting what you deserve from the relationship you committed yourself to.

Are you in a generally happy mood? You remember how it feels, right? When you’re crazy about someone, and you can’t stop thinking about the person, and the reason for your goofy grin is that you feel that you’re the luckiest person in the face of the earth. It’s not an urban legend. People who are in love are really happier than those who are out of love.

Do you love him the way s/he is? It kind of reminds you of the song, but it has a truth to it. Being loved for who you are is a very precious thing. Then again, it doesn’t mean you will have to put up with him/her if he’s just not worth it. For little flaws like snoring, love can definitely look past it. But if s/he’s doing something which is detrimental to both of you like getting drunk all the time or lying every chance s/he gets then you know you deserve someone better unless the other party steps up and overcomes issues.

Are you a strong couple? How strong is your commitment to stay together? When you want a relationship, you have to make a lot of sacrifice and compromise. There will always be fights and arguments every now and then. It can’t be helped. You will always have different opinions on some issues. The more important thing is how you, as a couple, resolve your conflicts. Because your resilience will strengthen your partnership.