You might have spent months in the gym toiling to get that chiseled physique. But if you think being a beefcake is all you need to be popular with the ladies, you’re mistaken. A girl can tell a lot of things from the way you approach them. Girls are so smart and intuitive about these things, so be careful of them shrewd creatures and come across exactly as you intended.

Are you anyone of these guys?

The spontaneous and playful guy is the guy who pounces on his chick when her guard is down. He usually initiates all play and is always game for some fooling around. Girls will like you for your energy and flirtatious demeanor.

The sweet and quiet guy is the guy who likes to give her sweetie a back rub every night. He’s the kind of guy who’ll offer to cook dinner if her partner came home late. This super-sensitive guy is perfect for girls who are looking for a modern old romance.

The bad boys are usually the ones girls like first. Blame James Dean for starting all that rebel without a cause trend. Girls go through a phase where a romance with a bad boy (a.k.a the jock who broke the hearts of half the student population and faculty) seems a novel come true. If you’re this guy, be careful. Girls grow fast. Once they accepted that the bad boy is never going to be more than just the heartthrob in high school, they’ll go for those two guys described on top. So be sure to grow up.