http://www.lifespy.com/2008/relationships-missing-your-ex/ analyzing lifestyles Thu, 04 Dec 2008 18:41:38 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5.1 http://www.lifespy.com/2008/relationships-missing-your-ex/#comment-194042 Irritated Tue, 15 Jul 2008 01:13:07 +0000 http://www.lifespy.com/2008/relationships-missing-your-ex/#comment-194042 This is the worst advice I've ever heard for dealing with this sort of situation. EVERYONE feels this way after breaking up, and very few truly MEAN goodbye when they say it... but that doesn't mean the pair in question is meant for each other, and a girl should simply try to "win him back"! A breakup, though undeniably difficult, is a golden opportunity to turn over a new leaf and find out who you are. The pain is only meant to make you stronger. Only after taking a good step back, getting your life on track, and developing a solid relationship with YOURSELF should you begin to reflect on past relationships. What you've done in this article is promote spinelessness in women. As a woman who has been so hopelessly hung up on exes that it's driven her into therapy, I can tell you this is DANGEROUS advice-- the perfect incentive for an insecure woman to throw herself back into a potentially abusive relationship. Shame on you. This is the worst advice I’ve ever heard for dealing with this sort of situation. EVERYONE feels this way after breaking up, and very few truly MEAN goodbye when they say it… but that doesn’t mean the pair in question is meant for each other, and a girl should simply try to “win him back”! A breakup, though undeniably difficult, is a golden opportunity to turn over a new leaf and find out who you are. The pain is only meant to make you stronger. Only after taking a good step back, getting your life on track, and developing a solid relationship with YOURSELF should you begin to reflect on past relationships. What you’ve done in this article is promote spinelessness in women. As a woman who has been so hopelessly hung up on exes that it’s driven her into therapy, I can tell you this is DANGEROUS advice– the perfect incentive for an insecure woman to throw herself back into a potentially abusive relationship. Shame on you.

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