It’s hard to keep your cool on a date when it’s the first time in a long time. Dating guidelines change from generation to generation, but some are written in stone. Two questions that seem: 1)Should a girl ask a guy out? and 2) What if a blind date is disappointing? Here are a couple of thoughts that could help you solve some of your dating problems.

Should a girl ask a guy out? The slogan girl power made it acceptable for a girl to ask a guy out these days. And why not? Women are tired of waiting for guys to make the first move. And sometimes there’s no movement at all! And so to make things easier for them both, girls can now definitely do the asking. Have problems with these? Well if you want to wait for it, then by all means wait. Just make sure you’re still having fun while waiting for the guy to ask you out. For example, if your prospect isn’t setting a date yet, then you’re free to date other guys

What if a blind date is disappointing? Blind dates are always a hundred times riskier because you’re meeting a stranger and hoping something as profound and rare as romance will form between you. This could make you feel more nervous towards the meeting. And yet, you shouldn’t be because if you’re nervous, you won’t be your best self. If you like what you see, then go for it. And if you don’t, well, don’t run for it just before your date sees you. Be polite enough to have a short dinner. You might actually find there’s more to like.