09 Apr
Posted by Alex as Attitude and Outlook, Behavior and Ethics, Sex and Relationships

She’s a real pretty thing and all your friends agree that she’s the prettiest girl you ever dated. But there comes a time when you stop calling her and you’re on the verge on calling it quits. Before she starts to hate you ’cause of you bailing out on your dates every time, why not analyze what gets to you so you can know immediately if you have come to the end of the line.
She babies you. She likes to baby-talk. It was cute when you were just starting out, making you feel like she’s baby-ing you and you like all the cheesiness. But it gets old, and it’s not cute anymore after a few weeks. Until she drops it and start talking her age, you will indeed find her annoying. Advice: Tell her that you’re not into that kind of thing. Maybe she’s under the impression that you like the cute and cuddly interactions and she might actually be grateful to drop the act after your confession.
Is your girlfriend indecisive? I’ll bet you’re not the only person she drives crazy for being that way. Chances are, her friends hate her for being like that too. Talk to her why she can’t be late on your date just because it takes her an hour to decide on an ensemble. Tell her why you hate it when she always asks you what she should do about her dog or what color to paint her nails. Girls who can’t think on their own are just not worth the effort of sticking around and waiting for them to make a simple decision.
Bitch fits. She makes an issue out of everything - how you missed calling her last night or if you were late picking her up. Compound this with rabid bouts of unjustified and ungrounded jealousy and her pretty face and nice body makes everything not worth it. Seeking a compromise on things that you can and cannot do in a relationship creates a very healthy partnership. If she isn’t willing to compromise and attacks you with her shoe almost every time, then leave the psycho.
All talk. One of the proverbial sexist labels to the female of the species is their inability to shut their mouths. It has been a well-accepted facts among married men that silence is a luxury that is quite hard to come by when they’re with the wife. Remember that communication is always two-way. If she hogs the lines, then it might be time for you to be more assertive.
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