Many parents complain when their children reach their teenage years. It seems like the cute little babies that they’ve cuddled have grown into mutants from outer space. Parents, just remember that you were teenagers once in your life, and despite the different fashion and music, the rebellious nature of the young haven’t changed a bit. Here are a few tips on how to communicate with your teenagers:

One word – respect. Teenagers often complain that they are not being treated like adults. If you want to make them listen to what you have to say, make sure that you hear them out. Resolve issues as if you are doing so with another adult.

Speak to them directly. Make strong eye contact and use a firm but calm voice. Avoid being patronizing and condescending.Never raise your voice. Temper would only be met by temper. If your objective is to talk, then it won’t be met. Don’t lose control. Although you are treating them like you would another adult person, you are still the parent.

Be direct. Focus on the facts. Explain to your teen why you are making a particular decision. Give your teen the chance to explain or to give his or her opinion.

Be quick. Address the issue and move on. Teenagers have short attention span so hours of lecture won’t sit with them well.