So you’ve decided to take up the fine art of flirting. Like any skill, flirting takes time to hone, and a lot of practice. But before you gte dressed in your glad rags and head for the nearest bar to try it out, here are some stuff you might want to read first:

Propriety. Flirting can’t be done just about anywhere (contrary to what some people say). There has to be an appropriate event and location for this. Make sure that you flirt in social rather than business settings. Parties, places where alcohol is served (i.e. bars, clubs), spectator events, can be ideal venues for flirting. Colleges and universities and the workplace can also be places where you can flirt. Just make sure that you do it in a more appropriate context.

Confidence. If you are alone and decide to flirt, make sure that you appear interested, confident, and available. Don’t just start reading or start fiddling with your phone. These might drive away any interested party. Smile lightly and let your eyes scan the room so that people know you’re there. Smile, walk with your head held high, and speak comfortably.

Body Language. Half of flirting is conversation, and the other half is simply body language.Many psychologists who study non-verbal communication agree that men or women get approached more because of the non-verbal signals they send. Some examples are smiling, pouting,giggling, nodding, and lip licking for women. Men project their dominance by strutting or placing their chest forward.

Conversation. Keep it light. Stick to neutral and fun topics such as hobbies, career plans, and interests. Never talk about controversial topics such as politics and religion.