04 Feb
Posted by Alex as Sex and Relationships, Work and Career

Finding romance where you work is not something new. You like someone, you see him everyday and you have a hundred chances to talk and flirt a little. And yet, not all people would jump at the idea of dating a co-worker. If you don’t know if you should have a go at your budding office romance, take a look at the following points to ponder.
Beware the emotions. Problems with your romance at home somehow stay at home. This is different if your romance is in the office. No doubt, your relationship can take you to great heights and while this can amp up your performance at work, enhance your optimism, and supply you with happy thoughts the whole day, bad days brought by even the pettiest of lovers’ quarrels can mean all hell breaking loose right in your cubicle.
Control the passion. Seeing your object of affection every hour and knowing that he’s just nearby might tend to overexcite you. And there might be times when you just want to show your love and devotion. However, offices usually require a level of decency and behavior and no amount of true love can justify your actions if you were caught being a little too intimate.
Can you retain your objectivity? While this depends on what your positions are and how closely you work with each other, having a relationship with someone at work could get in the way of decisions that have to be made. If your romance overlaps with work, it might come down to choosing which is more important to you.
Beware of the boss. Who are you eyeing in the office? Always think twice before you pursue the boss. While happy days can make you the apple of his eye, one bad day might cost you your job.
One Response
done bad now good
April 28th, 2009 at 1:14 am
1yeah, this needs to be a little bit more negative in my opinion. since i was in high school i always dreamed of a flame with a coworker kinda like you see in the movies. not like that at all, it’s a conflict of interest and is unacceptible everywhere. The truth is don’t do it, if you do fall for someone and at the same work place. spare your self the trouble and leave there before you even try to make a move. especially being in the friend zone. talking by experience here, i lost everything and thought i knew her but i was totally wrong. she now claims not to have ever have known me, the kinda chick that you take out camping and you never even still a kiss from while out and come back and claims you did her wrong and forced her to do stuff, and rape, etc. just crazy and i kinda knew it and like always kinda did and had advised other coworkers not to even try because of that a few years earlier but i however couldn’t follow my own advise. i fell and fell hard and having a hard time getting back up now, i still love her more than anything in the world but now i feel like i kinda never actually knew her either, she wore a mask all the time it seems and it came off in the end, there.
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