During these crazy times, a person should be grateful if one gets any job. But there are circumstances when we have no choice but to actually reject a job offer. And yes, even this is governed by rules of etiquette. Here are our suggestions on how to say no, gracefully an without damaging future relations with a particular company.

Whatever your reason is, when you meet up with the company to reject their offer, you have to be truthful. Be straightforward with your reason and do not make insincere excuses.You do not want to narrow your job market in the near future. Be firm. Do not give a company false hopes. If you decide to say no, mean it. Be grateful. Thank the company for offering you a job then apologize for not accepting it. Be honest, yes, but be tactful as well.

You can use any of the following reasons, if it is applicable to your situation. The offer is attractive but:

• after much discussion with family members, you have decided that this would not be the best time to switch careers.
• after thinking thoroughly, you have decided that the job does not suit your long term plans and coals.
• you have problems with the work location.
• you accepted another job which is a better fit for your skills.
• you feel that you have inadequate skills and knowledge for the job.