So we met a lot of the wrong ones and because they’re so common we have become so cautious and suspicious of the men we meet. Thing is, finding the right guy will always be a trial-and-error process. If only men are ordered like custom-made furniture, then we won’t be going through all the trouble just to get a guy that’s worth all the love you’re willing to give.

You can meet him anywhere, anytime. That’s right, he could be behind you at this very moment, or maybe you’ll meet him in the elevator later, or maybe you’ve seen him everyday but you never noticed. All girls know that love can strike at unexpected times. That means you have to always look your best. Make an effort to look put together at all times.

Be approachable. Being confident is good, but don’t overdo it because you’ll come off as intimidating. Confidence is attractive, but over-confidence is infuriating.

Attend parties. Don’t keep to yourself especially if you’re single. Let the world gaze on your beauty! Remember that if you’re single, you should mingle! Go out and have a few drinks every now and then. It should be known that you’re available.

Don’t avoid weddings. Some single women hate to attend weddings because they grew cynical of marriages. But look at it from a different angle. There’d be lots of single hot guys who are also there looking for a new prospect.

Don’t rush things. When you found someone who fits your standards and you think you’re falling in love, don’t ruin everything by fast-forwarding the process. There are a lot of promising romances that lost its spark because of wrong moves at the wrong time. Take it slow because there’s a lot to discover about each other. And enjoy the first things–first time you held hands, first time you hugged, first time you kissed.