Every relationship goes through a rough patch or two. The key to sail through this period is by effective communication. Nothing can’t be solved by talking and listening properly.

Anger doesn’t resolve anything. If you feel the need to “confront” a person, do it without anger. Anger leads to screaming and when screaming starts, communication fails.

Don’t just speak your mind. Actively listen to what the other person has to say too. This means focusing on the other person. Stop thinking of what you’re going to say next. Hear the other person out completely, so when it’s your turn to speak, you’ll have his or her undivided attention too.

Learn to reach a compromise. Relationships are a two-way street. You just can’t receive and receive or give and give. You need to give and receive equally. Be prepared to sacrifice some things, because as you reach a compromise with the other person, you’ll know that he or she too needs to give up something to make the relationship work.

Get someone to mediate. If you cannot resolve the conflict between yoruselves, then have an objective third party to mediate. This can be a counselor or a spiritual leader. A disinterested party will be able to make things clear for both of you.