You get along with your in-laws? Great! But does that guarantee you a wonderful vacation? Well, just try to be on the safe side and don’t try to turn the dream vacation into the holiday straight from hell. Here are some tips you might want to look into before you pack the sunscreen (or ski poles)
and go off with your in-laws.

Don’t feel obliged to be with them all the time. If you can discuss the trip itinerary with your in-laws, then all the better. I’m sure they have some things they want to do on their own, while you also have yours. Just try to arrange activities evenly so you have ample time with them and at the same time have time for your own adventures as well. Oh, and if budget is not a problem, please have separate accommodations.

Do not argue if your in-laws are treating you for the trip, or a meal-out. Accept gracefully and  you can always pay by treating them the next time you have a meal. Or you can take care of the tip. This will avoid embarrassing discussions over the tab.

Never complain about the trip or discuss family problems during the trip. Just be patient, do your best to hang in there and wait until the trip is over to discuss it with your spouse.

If your in-laws are elderly or have health problems, then do your best to make them comfortable. Don’t expect them to keep up with your activities. Don’t leave them your kids. If you brought your children with you, then they’re your responsibility. If your in-laws love kids, then you’re lucky.  If not, just be sensitive to their needs. After all, they’re also there to enjoy a vacation, not to act as babysitters.