Being a pallbearer for a funeral is a serious role to fulfill. For one, it is indeed an honor to be chosen, especially if you’re a family friend.

Dress in a simple, and conservative black suit. Colors should be avoided.

Ask what your duties are beforehand. Listen carefully to the instructions of the funeral director and remain quiet and solemn. Wait for the time when you need to perform your duties.

Walk slowly and steadily. Be aware of the tempo of the other pallbearers as you carry the casket.