So many stuff have been written on intimacy. Thing is, people can’t seem to get tired of talking about it. So here we have mapped out a synopsis of 411′s on what you can do to take your relationship to the next level.

Feel sexy. There’s nothing sexy about being insecure. Your weight does not determine your sexiness, your attitude does. So whether you’re underweight or overweight, work up on your self-esteem. And all sexy things shall follow.

Drop the smoking habit. No one wants to kiss an ashtray. You might also wanna know that smoking has a bad effect on blood flow to the erogenous zones because it makes the blood vessels narrower and it drains up stamina.

Do aphrodisiacs work? Not proven entirely, but eating it while believing that it has sexual powers might give a placebo effect. You can also try Ginkgo Biloba–an herb which is known to improve blood flow to the brain and the erogenous zones of the body.

Loosen your boundaries with a little bit of alcohol. A few shots to make you more daring, but not too much to get you too drunk to enjoy the intimacy that might follow.

Talk. A great connection is essential to great sex.

Last night I watched this show on TV that featured super expensive getaways for honeymooning couples. Once you see the price tag on these getaways, one might start wondering about why people are willing to spend so much just to get a cozy and intimate moment.

Invest on a private bedroom that makes you feel relaxed, unstressed and in the mood for sex. Your bed should be soft and your sheets smooth. Install those lights which can go bright and dim and get the best view from the house. And don’t let the kids sleep over. They have their own room.

Know what’s in and what’s out. Even an act as old as time has new things to offer.

Be honest. It’s important that both of you know what makes the other hot.

Be attentive. Pay attention and you’ll discover more about how she likes to do it.

Take her out to dinner. Break your daily casual dinner routine once a month and dress up for a nice time outdoors. There’s nothing like keeping the basics of romance.

Wear sexy outfits. Skip the pajamas and slip into your lacy underwear.

Keep in touch. Being sexy doesn’t have to end in what happens inside the bedroom. Send each other text messages saying sweet and naughty thoughts.

Since you’re getting all set for this year’s love fest, we are going to help you out reach your objective. All those Valentine’s Day preparations are sure to conclude in an evening of canoodling if you know what to eat. That’s right! We’re going to clue you in on the most proven, sure-fire aphrodisiacs known to man.

This one’s a no-brainer. What beverage is the most often used excuse for getting laid? The answer is alcohol. Alcohol is the all-time favorite aphrodisiac and probably the most powerful of them all. A little sip boosts your confidence, makes you a bit more chatty, and releases you from your usual limits. You can’t get that from watching porn.

Is it just the shape? There’s more to your regular banana than what it looks like. Scientific studies have actually proven that it has good effects on men during you-know-what. And when we say good, we mean good.

Oysters. It’s believed that oysters bring out the best in you when you’re at it. This is probably due to the weird fact that oysters are able to release both sperm and eggs because they are protandric. Want proof? Look it up over Oyster. They are also able to make you release more sex hormones. Now, ain’t that good news?

Chocolates are less effective than vodka, but far more tempting. The rich flavor of chocolate brings a very pleasurable experience which is connected to more exciting activities involving two people. While chocolates are milder in its aphrodisiac tendencies, given the right box, a girl might get into the mood even before you do.